Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Where the Wild Things Are


This past weekend I made it to the movies. Me, my husband and my sons all went and saw 'Where the Wild things Are." I had been highly ancipating it's release. I remember being a child and my mom reading me the book. What really had me intrested was how they were going to make it into a movie. The book is thin and has more illistrations in it than actual words. I am pleased with the movie, I loved it.

For those that are thinking about dragging their kids out to see it be warned it is not exactly a kids movie. The only thing that makes it a child movie is that the main charcters were fuzzy, furry, hairy and horned. The overtones in it is more for ages 10 plus.

The special effects were fantastic and the story was heartbreaking in several aspects. I loved it. It was right up my alley becuase I adore movies that are a bit sad and tragic. To make my point one of my favorite book/movies is "Cold Mountain". Can't get much more tragic than what happens in that movie.

I recommend it highly, but be warned that your 4 year old may get bored and frustrated because there really isn't much action and it may be a bit over their head. Overall I thought it was well worth the wait and Max Records was fantasic and the perfect Max for Carol.


The movie is based on the children's book by Maurice Sendak and is available for purchase on amazon.com for around $8.00. They also have movie story book (hardcover) for $9.35.

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Halloween contest 2009

REPOST!!REPOST!!


Today is Hump Day! To take the hump out of your week I am here to announce that The Feathered Quill will be having a HALLOWEEN COSTUME CONTEST! The contest officially begins TODAY SEPTEMBER 16, 2009 and ends on FRIDAY NOVEMBER 6, 2009!

TO ENTER: Send a photo of yourself in your Halloween Best to me at rubyself@aol.com in JPEG format and include your name, address, contact phone number and your e-mail address with your photo. This information is for contest use only, I will not spam you.


PRIZES:
First Place will receive a $25.00 gift cerifticate to SIMPLYAUDIO.COM, second place will receive a copy of DAN BROWN'S "The Lost Symbol", and one winner will be chosen randomly to win a $15.00 itunes gift card.
The winners will be contacted by me R.J. Self when they are drawn. I will mail the prizes to the winner in the month of November and the winner will be drawn on NOVEMBER 7 2009.

RULES:
NO NUDITY! A selection of the entries will be posted to my blog as well as the winning entries, by entering the contest you agree to have your photo posted. Only one prize per person. If multiple people are in the photo you will have to share the prize, one prize per place awarded. Entries without contact information included will not be entered in the contest, they will be discarded. Everyone is welcome to enter, the photo's can be in black in white, but this contest is for BEST COSTUME it will not be judged based on the photographer's skill.

If you have a question please contact me at rubyself@aol.com or leave a comment on my blog.

I look forward to seeing all the photo's and I will re post this blog post EVERY TUESDAY for those that need the entry information. May the best costume win!!!!

Monday, October 19, 2009

A Womans Nation

I know that last week I did not post anything and that is because I was crocheting my brains out. Me and my husband will soon the the proud new aunt and uncle to a baby girl within this week or next week. We want to be there for the arrival of the newest addition to our family, but due to the fact that we have two kids in school and that the birth will happen in North Carolina means that we cannot be there. So we opted to send something that has love in every stitch, I made a hooded baby blanket. Even though we cannot be there the new baby can be wrapped in our love. Corney? Yes, but a sweet gesture all the same.




Now the fact that I can crochet brings us to something that got me to thinking. On the Today Show they are doing a special report this week called "A Woman's Nation" and it is a report done with Maria Shriver and the Center for American Progress. The First Lady of California visited families across the nation to see how they are a family basically. Is the woman the main income provider? Is the man the main care giver for children and elderly parents? This is a sample of the questions she asked them.

The report is intriguing to say the least. The numbers that the report gives us brings the fact that women as a whole are altering our roles in the family unit. But isn't that what we do?

This report brings us to notice that us women do what we need to do to keep our family's functioning and together. Yes, we have raised our voices in the past for the nation to make drastic changes, example for us to have the right to vote, for us to have better paying jobs,respect at our jobs and even for us attend colleges in the past that denied us females access. We have altered the way people see us as a whole.

In reality if you think about it we have evolved as a species in this aspect. We went from expecting women to be in the kitchen making dinner and bearing children to women running their own businesses and making leaps and bounds in science and technology. Not only are we the nurses that care for you when you are ill, we are running the hopstial and sending you the bill. It is amazing if you think about.

For me all of this seems like we planned it out during a quilting meeting ages ago. I can see ladies in their hoop skirts being fed up with having to wear 15 different layers in the heat if July and planning up a timeline. "Mary, I want to be able to wear pants like a cowboy by the 1950's, and I want to smoke too!" They all go out their quills and paper and made notes.

What really happened is that we took notice that we were treated as a second class citizens, and that men thought of us as possessions and not as people. I know that it sounds sexy in our minds, but really its not. If it was not for us being able to endure birthing those sexiest men would not have been born. We just want to be treated as people and that has grown till we are where we are at today.

We just wanted our fair square mostly. Also another half of it is that we have done what needed to be done. I know that we all have our dreams and plans for the future and of course we all want to see them come true. The sad reality is that most of those dreams will be put aside to be able to live, to survive.

I know that seems silly in this day and age, survival. It's true though. Me and my husband have changed the way our family functions several times just to be able to ensure that our family has been able to survive. I have worked and stayed at home, he has worked and also stayed at home with the kids; we have worked together and separately just so that we could pay the bills.

One of the things that has made us change so often was childcare. We refused to put our children in day care. We refused to push our kids on family members and friends. I don't think that shuffling our kids around was a great idea. One of the toughest times we had was when both of us was working full time jobs and my husband was a full time college student. That took a lot of energy and working out. I remember being late several times for my shift because my husband's classes ran over and I had our son till he got out of class. We swapped him off in parking lots and met for quick lunches together as much as we could. That was when I was working 50 plus hours a week and weekends just to make ends meet. (Hey, text books are not free)

We do what we have to. If that means that that the woman of the family has to work because her husband got laid off and cannot find another job so be it. We have actually been through that, and it was nice to have my hubby at home. If it means that we work, we do. If it means that we have to stay at home we try to make the best out of it.

There is not always a plan. I loved my job I had but I elected to give it up to stay at home with our children. It has not been the easiest path, but it has been a worthy path. I do get tired of the laundry, the running back and forth to school, and everything that needs to be done falling upon my shoulders. I chug along for my children and because these things must get done. I do wonder where I would be at now if I had stayed at my job and placed our boys in day care. I doubt if we would be as close as we are now.

This report is telling us what we already know. We are going to do what is necessary. No more, no less. If that means joining the army to pay for school and to help us get decent medical care so be it. If that means having an office job during the week then waiting tables on the weekends while we go to school at night we will. It's a difficult balance to wear all the hats of mother, daughter, sister, wife, employee, student, and still keep a minor sliver of ourselves intact.

The Shriver Report can be viewed at www.awomansnation.com and is available for purchase only in the format of an ebook on October 20th. Amazon has it for the price of $9.99 for the kindle. It can be printed off of the website for free. Also this week on the Today show they will be featuring A Womans Nation everyday.

Happy Monday and tell a woman that is special to you thank you.

Friday, October 9, 2009

Schools Closing

It's Friday again! Yea! Well, we are still on Fall Break and I have been busy enjoying my kids and winterizing. Yep, I have been swapping summer wardrobes for winter ones, putting swimming gear in storage and doing some much needed cleaning. As I have cleaned and stored this till next spring I am worried. Very worried.
I live in Dickson TN and they, and they being the county, are considering closing our schools all because they cannot decide on a budget. The state will allow them TWO months to keep the schools closed.
Your thinking TWO months too huh? That's what I said. The kicker is that the kids will end up having to go to school through the SUMMER and for Saturday school to make it up. That is crap I say! CRAP!
The real issue is not that the county cannot settle on a budget that will NOT result in us paying an outrageous amount for property taxes, but that the children will suffer. The kids will have to acclimate all over again to be comfortable with their teachers and class mates, they will have to RE-LEARN everything that they have been taught so far this year, and what really has me riled is that the special needs children that depend on the school to provide therapy will not receive their therapy. I know that most of the parents here cannot afford to pay the therapist $70.00 an hour to come to their homes.
I have a little one with a fine motor skill delay, but that is nothing major compared to what some of these children are getting therapy for. In children every day is precious when they have a special need. That is a day they can improve, strengthen and learn. Imagine two months without therapy that is NOT covered by medical insurance because most insurances do not cover speech, fine motor skill delay, or even gross motor skill delay therapies because they are seen as "cosmetic".
To me the Dickson County Commissioners are being selfish and stupid. They are thinking only of what they want, not what the people of the county need. As a parent I am outraged that they would let this slid too the point that they have chosen a day to close the schools, which is OCTOBER 23 if your wondering. They are having another meeting to settle this hopefully on MONDAY OCTOBER 12 in Charlotte at the courthouse. I am not sure of the time, they have yet to post it anywhere. I am guessing they do not want a mob of pissed of parents there helping them do the budget.
For our children to suffer is shameful. It makes me cringe to admit that I live here. If I could home school my children I would after this. This shows how much the county cares for our futures, i.e. the children.

I am guessing that Fridays from now on will be my rant and rave day. I'm just joking, but this really upsets me. Hopefully our school year will not be disrupted and things will continue on normally. I sincerely hope so for those of us that depend of the school system to provide what we physically cannot at home.

Have a happy and safe weekend, and for goodness sakes READ SOMETHING!!

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Fall Break Ideas

This week is Fall Break for us here in Tennessee for those that attend school. Yep I have my wonderful boys for two full weeks. Now that I have them what do I do with them? This is the question many parents ask. I understand that heaps of parents do not have the option of staying at home like I do and many moms and dads are busy with work and are looking to maximize the quality time they get with their kids. I really do understand that because once upon I time I used to work 60 plus hours a week.

Do not fear! I am here with tons of ideas to help you make a fun day with your kids! These ideas are designed for cooler weather but can be changed to fit whatever climate you live in.

Since it is cold and wet here we will be mostly indoors. The first thing that is on my "TO DO LIST" with my kids is simple, color! There are TONS and I mean TONS of free printable coloring pages out there from children's websites. Nickjr.com has quite a few that can be had in their most popular characters like Olivia and GO! Diego GO! . You can also search in your web browser and get tons of sites.

2. Paint. Since it is fall and fall means leaves and pumpkins. Before you paint make sure you have all the supplies you need. I like to cover everything in newspaper, including the work area and the floor. I let the kids were old T-shirts to paint in since smocks are kind of hard to find. I like to use paint brushes with different sized tips from small to large, and I try to use the ones that have a TRIANGLE handle, the shape lets the kids use the brush like a pencil, and lets them use their tri-finger pencil grip with ease. Make sure the paint is water soluble, and is NON-TOXIC and is safe for kids. Trust me, they will get paint in places you never thought possible.
I like to take the kids outside with a bucket to gather leaves of different sizes, acorns, rocks, sticks and anything else that they like. If the items are wet dry them off as best as you can and if the leaves are wet press them between two paper towels and set a book on them and allow to dry OVER NIGHT.
When we paint we use construction paper, paper plates and card stock, but any paper product will work. I use Dixie cups to divide the paint up by color, and a plastic cup to hold the water and brushes. The kids like the clear cups so they can see the water change colors when they rinse their brushes. Let them paint one side of the leaves and whatever else the pick up from outside and them press it onto their paper.
This lets the kids see the textures of the leaves and the surfaces of their items. They can use different colors and make a fall scene they can be proud of!



3. Paint Pumpkins! Everybody has seen the cute little pumpkins on sale at their local store for cheap. They are the PERFECT size for small hands. Pick up a few and let your kids paint them. Don't be scared to use the ones with textured surfaces, often kids like the bumpy ones better! They can have spooky faces, silly faces, add some yarn and give them hair with a bit of hot glue to hold it on. You can use buttons for eyes, construction paper or felt for a hat. The possibilities is endless! Then sit your end product on a table for a homemade center piece that is touchable!


4. Spooky Cut Outs! Construction paper is cheap and it can be bought in large amounts. For this alone I LOVE it! For this you can use water paints, crayons, markers, or whatever you happen to have on hand.
Draw shapes of ghosts, pumpkins, and monsters on construction paper, then let your kids color them. Some older kids can help you cut them out, but be sure to let them use safety scissors. Remember the less detailed the limbs are, like hands and hair, the easier it is to cut them out. I like to cut out eyes and tape a different colored square of constriction paper on the back side to give them different colored eyes. Then tape them to any surface of your choosing, but make sure it is somewhere where they can be admired!


5. Bird feeders. These will not be squirrel proof, but they are fun. I know that if you like us you go through milk like crazy. Save some milk jugs, make sure they are rinsed out well though and keep the lids.
Step one is to draw a large oval or square on your milk jug. I like to use the sides opposite if the handle. Then cut it out using kitchen shears or some sharp scissors, this recommended to be done by adults only. Make sure the hole will be large enough for a bird to get into the jug, think of the size of a Blue Jay.
Next paint the jug with Non-toxic kid safe paint. (Remember to cover your work area with newspaper or a drop cloth and to let the kids wear an old T-shirt) Let the jugs dry overnight or till they are completely dry!
Once dry drill two small holes through the neck of the jug, the holes need to be large enough to allow you to thread twine through them with ease. Once drilled thread twine through the holes and cut the twine with enough length to allow it to hang from a tree branch.
You also need a third hole. This will be for the perch. For the perch you can use a stick from the yard, but make sure it is at least 1/2 inch in diameter and that it is not rotted so it will support a bird, or you can go to the local hardware store and by wooden rods and cut them to size with a small saw. Some craft stores sell small pre-cut perches also. Cover the end of the stick in a strong glue like Gorilla Glue and place it in the hole you drilled. Allow the glue to set and dry. Make sure to place the lid back on it so that rain will not get in it from the top.
Once the glue is dry pick out a place to hang it. A tie the twine around the branch, and fill with bird seed. The kids will love watching the birds at the feeder, and they will love filling it back up. Plus it's good for the environment!

6. A movie Picnic. For an afternoon that is dreary get out a quilt and make a living room picnic. We usually pop popcorn and make hot chocolate for this event, make sure to use a cup with a lid. Watch some family favorites like "The Wizard of OZ", "Babe", "Wall-E" and have a blast snuggling and laughing. The dreary afternoon will be fun and the mind numbing stream of endless cartoons and video games will be halted for some quality time. My boys love it when we have a movie marathon picnic, try watching several Harry Potters or the Land Before Time movies back to back.

7. Charity. Christmas and extremely cold weather will be here before you can blink. October is the perfect month to get ready for it if you haven't already. Change out your summer wardrobe for Winter clothes and donate your summer clothes that you know you will not wear again to a Charity. I know that kids grow fast and the winter clothes that fit good last year might be too small for this year, so while your unpacking your winter items check the labels and if they are too small make sure they go to charity as well. This is also the perfect time to go through toy boxes and bookshelves. Trust me if you don't do it now you will be kicking yourself come Christmas morning when your house looks like a toy store puked in it. If there is not a local Charity in your area ask around, there is always a family in need somewhere and many local churches and food banks also accept clothing and household items.

8. Read. Yep, read to them. Even the most time pinched parent can sit down and read a book to a child. I cannot stress enough how much spending 15 minutes a day reading to a child can make a difference.
It doesn't have to be a huge book, just a simple one. Cat in the Hat, The little Red Hen or even a comic book will do. If you show that you like to read it will improve their skill for reading! Reading well is a must for school and they will be reading for the rest of their lives so give them a good start!
If you don't have books to read go to the local library or Goodwill. Often at charity stores they have used books for cheap. Another added bonus is they quality time you will get out of reading to your child. They will remember snuggling up and you reading them a book, and they will look foreword to it. My four year old refuses to go to bed without his story, it is part of our nightly routine and helps him relax for bed. Trust me he is a busy boy and he needs to relax before bed or we would be up all night with him. It's a wonderful tool and it allows us to unwind a bit too!

I hope these 8 ideas will help you get through Fall Break with a small part of your sanity intact. If you need to get out of the house with your little ones and it is dry try a park, an ice cream trip, or even a simple walk around the block. Or if you feeling a bit more adventurous take them skating, or rock wall climbing. All that matters in the end is that you got to spend some quality time with them while they are away from the pressures of school. Happy Hump Day!

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

HALLOWEEN CONTEST 2009

REPOST!!REPOST!!


Today is Hump Day! To take the hump out of your week I am here to announce that The Feathered Quill will be having a HALLOWEEN COSTUME CONTEST! The contest officially begins TODAY SEPTEMBER 16, 2009 and ends on FRIDAY NOVEMBER 6, 2009!

TO ENTER: Send a photo of yourself in your Halloween Best to me at rubyself@aol.com in JPEG format and include your name, address, contact phone number and your e-mail address with your photo. This information is for contest use only, I will not spam you.


PRIZES:
First Place will receive a $25.00 gift cerifticate to SIMPLYAUDIO.COM, second place will receive a copy of DAN BROWN'S "The Lost Symbol", and one winner will be chosen randomly to win a $15.00 itunes gift card.
The winners will be contacted by me R.J. Self when they are drawn. I will mail the prizes to the winner in the month of November and the winner will be drawn on NOVEMBER 7 2009.

RULES:
NO NUDITY! A selection of the entries will be posted to my blog as well as the winning entries, by entering the contest you agree to have your photo posted. Only one prize per person. If multiple people are in the photo you will have to share the prize, one prize per place awarded. Entries without contact information included will not be entered in the contest, they will be discarded. Everyone is welcome to enter, the photo's can be in black in white, but this contest is for BEST COSTUME it will not be judged based on the photographer's skill.

If you have a question please contact me at rubyself@aol.com or leave a comment on my blog.

I look forward to seeing all the photo's and I will re post this blog post EVERY TUESDAY for those that need the entry information. May the best costume win!!!!

Monday, October 5, 2009

How To Subscribe


I had a question asked by Kelli via my GUESTBOOK, and it is a wonderful question. How do I subscribe?

That is easy! On the left side of my page you have two options!

One is to become a "FOLLOWER", this option allows you to use your Google account or another account to keep track of your favorite blogs, I actually use this feature myself for several blogs. This option allows you to sign in under your google account and allows you to leave comments on the blogs you are a fan of, this is easier for me.

The second option is a new addition to my blog. You can now subscribe via a feeder. This allows you to add a feed to your most used homepage like MY AOL. Just click on the orange icon on the top of the left side of page that says "SUBSCRIBE TO THIS BLOG". It will pop up a page that has some of my most recent posts on it and on the top right side it gives you multiple options to add a feed of my blog to. Choose which one you use and it will say subscribe with MY AOL for example, then click on it. It will pop up your page and may ask for your log in info. Then it's done! Simple, and easy.

Kelli, I hope that answered your question! If you have a question feel free to leave it as a comment in the post it is referencing, or you can leave it in my guest book which is located at the bottom of my blog or you can e-mail me at rubyself@aol.com. Thanks for reading!

Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Spider Pope!


Happy Hump Day! It's the middle of the week and I am feeling a bit, well mean. Yep I feel like a Blue Meanie from the yellow Submarine. If I could freeze all the people that that has irked me in the past two days there would be quite a lot of people littering the fair state of Tennessee and maybe some out of state.

I have a thing against telemarketers. I even signed up for that "Do not call" list. Yet I am still getting calls. My pet peeve is that if your going to call someone and disrupt their day by trying to sell them crap they don't need you could at least PRONOUNCE their name correctly. I have been called so many different names in the past 24 hours I am beginging to wonder where these people were taught to read at, I'm guessing somewhere that doesn't support the use of phonics.
So I am being mean, everytime one of them calls and says my name wrong I let them stumble around till they sound ridiculous then I correct them a couple of times, and even use it properly in a sentecnce for them like I do my 4 year old that's learning to read. This is how I do it.
(Remember to do it SLOWLY so they can understand clearly.) Example, "Penny, my name is Penny. P-E-N-N-Y, as in, "I found a PENNY.". That usually pisses them off and makes me feel satisfied because I clearly just brought attention to their lack of pronuncation skills. Yep, you just got served.
Now don't go all soft on the side of the telemarketer. I used to work for a cell phone company and had to deal with off names all the time. If I was unsure of a name I would google it, ask a friend or ask the customer to pronounce it for me because it was an unusal name. I love new and exciting words, that's fun to me. But there really is no excuse to mistake Ruby for Rudy, or even Johnny (yep, one of them called me Rudy then Johnny in the next sentence he spoke). Really there's no excuse for this. None what so ever.
Together we can educate people and we all can be called the correct name!

Okay, that's my rant. I'm finished I swear. Now for a bit of fun. I saw this on TV and it had me giggling which is rare for me. I loved Pope John Paul. I wanted to go to Rome when he passed, if I would have had the cash to afford the flight I would have went and stood among the masses who morned his death. I thought he was brilliant. Now is sucssor is a different story, he is German, and I have NOTHING against germany or germans at all. I have met quite a few people from Germany and they all are pretty neat people. I have heard some crazy stories from people partying too much while there, and of course I adore the fact that most of them do not own refridgerators and ice is a rarity and they shop at open air markets. I wish we had large open air markets here. Oh, and don't forget that a pair of Levis is like gold there.
Pope Benidict XVI is a bit creepy to me, he reminds me of an evil (say it eeeevil) kebbler elf. Like he wanted to make bats blood cookies instead of fudge stripe and they kicked him out. This clip is from the Colbert Report on Sept. 29, 2009 and it is awesome. Enjoy!!

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Monday, September 28, 2009

Soon to be released

Since True Blood on HBO is over till NEXT June, which to me seems eternally long, for those of us addicted to Vampires but will not be reduced to watching teen aged vampires struggling through puberty there is hope.


The last Sookie Stackhouse novel that was published was in May, if your eager for more and can't wait till June help yourself to the box set of Sookie Stackhouse books by Charlaine Harris, it is available through Amazon.com for $32.71 for books
1-7, so far in print there are 10 books total. Come October 6 2009 book number 11 of the series will be published it is titled, "Touch of Dead" and is available for pre-order in HARDBACK edition only for $12.93, or the Kindle edition for $9.99.


Mrs. Harris also has a short Sookie Stackhouse story printed in the book titled "Bite" which also features Laura K. Hamilton among other writers. This short story covers a period of time that is not covered in her books, but if have read all of the books and felt like you missed something, well it's in this short story. It is also available on Amazon.com for purchase for $7.99.

Another one of my favorite writers is Kresley Cole. She has a wonderful series of books called the "Immortals after dark series", so far there are 7 full books in the series that feature everything from werewolves, vampires, demons, to shield maidens. I was hooked with the very first book called "Hunger like no other" and I have been hooked ever since. I have read "Hunger" at least 10 times and that means that my copy is very worn. Which is rare for me.


On OCTOBER 13, 2009 Kresley Cole and Gena Showater are publishing a book together. It will feature two stories, one by each author, for the price of one. Kresley Cole's half of the book will feature Murdoch Wroth and Daniela the Ice Maiden.
Gena Showater's will feature Aleaha Love. The book is titled "DEEP KISS OF WINTER" and is available for per-order from amazon.com for the price of $11.87 for hardcover, and I am unsure if this title will be released for Kindle.

Hopefully these titles will help get you through the gloomiest of winter days, and spice up your life. I can't wait to fill my shopping cart to the brim with them!

Friday, September 25, 2009

Swap

I know that if your like me you love to curl up with a good book on rainy days. There is nothing better that I like to do than cuddle up in a blanket on the couch and read with the house quiet. It's a rare moment when my house is quiet. The thing for me lately is that the selection of books in my local area are not quite up to snuff, they suck actually. If I wanted to read every version of a cup of soup for the Soul I would be set, or if I wanted to simply read crafting magizines. But I don't, I crave something thick with plot and characters that fly off the page. So I am bound to reading old favorites or hitting the library in the hopes that they have something decent.

Its somewhat frustrating really. I am a collector of books, I love the way they smell, the feel of their wieght in my hands, and the sounds of pages turning. I am addicted to simply put it. In order to broaden my selections a select group of my friends and I swap books. Yep, we collect five or six books, put book covers on them with the title and our name and we swap. They all get retuned to the owner once a month when we swap again. It saves me money, trust me I could easily blow a wad of cash on books, and I get to see my friends and have an excuse to get out of the house that does not involve me spending money.

My husband is relieved that I do this. I once walked into a Barnes and Noble and dropped nearly $300 on books in less than fifteen minutes. I thought he was going to have a stroke. Swapping is kid friendsly and also allows my kids to see their friends. It's kind of like a play date. It's a win-win really.

So as the hoildays approach and we must tighten our belts even more I highly recommend this. If you and your friends are addicts of other media, like Video Games or DVDs try swapping them. I know I was surprised with what selections my friends and family had that I didn't.

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Halloween Contest 2009!

REPOST!!REPOST!!


Today is Hump Day! To take the hump out of your week I am here to announce that The Feathered Quill will be having a HALLOWEEN COSTUME CONTEST! The contest officially begins TODAY SEPTEMBER 16, 2009 and ends on FRIDAY NOVEMBER 6, 2009!

TO ENTER: Send a photo of yourself in your Halloween Best to me at rubyself@aol.com in JPEG format and include your name, address, contact phone number and your e-mail address with your photo. This information is for contest use only, I will not spam you.


PRIZES:
First Place will receive a $25.00 gift cerifticate to SIMPLYAUDIO.COM, second place will receive a copy of DAN BROWN'S "The Lost Symbol", and one winner will be chosen randomly to win a $15.00 itunes gift card.
The winners will be contacted by me R.J. Self when they are drawn. I will mail the prizes to the winner in the month of November and the winner will be drawn on NOVEMBER 7 2009.

RULES:
NO NUDITY! A selection of the entries will be posted to my blog as well as the winning entries, by entering the contest you agree to have your photo posted. Only one prize per person. If multiple people are in the photo you will have to share the prize, one prize per place awarded. Entries without contact information included will not be entered in the contest, they will be discarded. Everyone is welcome to enter, the photo's can be in black in white, but this contest is for BEST COSTUME it will not be judged based on the photographer's skill.

If you have a question please contact me at rubyself@aol.com or leave a comment on my blog.

I look forward to seeing all the photo's and I will re post this blog post EVERY TUESDAY for those that need the entry information. May the best costume win!!!!

Monday, September 21, 2009

Cliches

Today I am thinking about cliche's. Yep the boring of the boring for books. I realize that for your manuscript to fit into a genre it has to have some common elements with other books to fit in so we can add a label to our writings. Labels are uncomfortable for me. I despise having to say that my book will most likely be dubbed as a youth book when it really is an all ages book.

Cliche's are everywhere. From page one to the last page, from the moment we meet the villain and we know that he will be bad and do horrid things just to fit his label. From the vampires that fall in love with the sweet and innocent mortal to the perfect goody two shoes, who in the story has flaws but nothing really too overbearing, that totes the whole story.

The reason why I quit reading romances is because of the cliche's. I am sick to death of reading the same story over and over. The girl needs a man's man, and he's the one for the job even though he is clueless until he has a moment of perfect clarity and he realizes that he does love her. Gag me. Who hasn't read that 50 billion times over?

I want to PREVENT cliche's in my writing. I want the reader to feel something for my character's. I spent so much time inventing them and making them live why would I place them into the mediocre? That's senseless, I don't see the reasoning behind it. Why work if your not going to give your project 100% of everything you have? Not only have you wasted your time, but your readers as well. I have actually returned books to the store because of this. When the store clerk asks my reasoning for returning the book they look at me like I'm crazy when I say that it was dull, but I will not read another cliche story. I crave something more, I want to read something that will move me into another mode of thinking and living.

These days money is tight and needs to be well spent. Give your readers something worth their buck. Show them the story, not tell it, and give them something more. Reinvent your writing style if you have to, talk to people who actually have the same occupation as your main character if you haven't been there and done that. Get out there in the world and experience something then write about it. Drop the dull and overused plot lines and create something that leaps off the page into your readers hearts. Yes it will be hard, but dang it, aren't you worth it? Isn't your manuscript worth it? Isn't your readers worth it? Yes!! Let's open the minds and hearts of the world! We are the music makers and the dreamers don't be pushed around just to fill pages or to meet a deadline. Anything good is worth waiting for.

Friday, September 18, 2009

Inspiration

Inspiration comes in all forms. It can be from a beautifully moving song, a movie, or a wonderful piece of art. Many things are inspiration for us writers. Some say a pay check or even fame is enough inspiration. That is true on some level. For us writers to receive a pay check and fame someone has to like our writing enough to feel inclined to PAY US, which of course means that someone appreciates our skill and VALIDATES us as a writer. All that we are striving for is to know that someone sees how hard we have worked and it has moved them in some way. This is also true for many occupations, but writers and artists are known to CRAVE that validation to outrageous points.

In order for us to make the work that someone will "Ooh", and "Awe" over we are in constant need for inspiration, some type of muse. For me life and nature provide that. I adore nature scenes where the calm is almost touchable, but then I also love the photos that dare-devil photographers take in the middle of a hurricane of palm trees bent backwards with their leaves being blown harshly by 100 mph winds and rain drops pelting the scene and the camera with a force that makes the skin sting and the water to bounce like hail off of the ground. It's a moment forever frozen in time. That is what moves me to want to try to capture the beauty and fierceness of the moment with words.

My main thing is to keep motivated. I try to see beauty everyday, and it up to me to try to describe it. If you are having a hard time narrating a scene go for a walk and look around. People find their muse in the most unexpected places. Mine is not a constant. It's not like I have a single person or item that makes me want to write. I write because what I experience in my life is overwhelming and needs to be detailed. I want to preserve the memory onto paper so that future generations can read about my life and know that we made it through some tough times, but it was only a select few bad moments that were surrounded by love and laughter.

Writing is complex. That's what people who do not write will never understand. It's not just having the dedication or the commitment to write, but being able to OPEN yourself up to different experiences and being able compose a symphony based on those feelings. I strive to write down my experiences for the day every single day and what my emotions were and how I reacted to these experiences. Then I can go back if I am stuck in a scene. I'll remember, "Oh, yeah. I went through that!" and I can read how I felt when that happened. Inspiration is great but it alone cannot get a writer through the day sometimes we need a little help.

I am offering you my readers a little help today. This week in Tennessee is rainy, wet and a bit on the chilly side. Usually this time of year we have nearly 90 degree (Fahrenheit) days, and this week we have yet to peak above 65 degrees. Yep, it's a spooky week. Fog covers the landscape, creeks are overflowing, the ground is saturated with rain and mud puddles are everywhere. It's a beautiful week. To show you how beautiful this week has been I have spent my morning driving around the area where I live to take photos. All of these were taken by me in my car. I didn't get out a single time, but I did make some U Turns and stopped quite a bit. It was fun. I recommend you try it.

Happy Friday! (to enlarge any of the photos simply click on them)
















Monday, September 14, 2009

Revision, revision

I would say that my week off was a week of perfection, but it wasn't. It was a week of me working all hours of the day and night on my book. For those that don't know, I have written a book in a moment of weakness. It is a young adult fantasy fiction, and I am in the process of editing it and making a few revisions. I know that it will never be perfect, but hey I am giving it my best shot.

The revision process is grueling. The process tests you in ways you never expected. It makes your eyes hurt from staring at a screen for hours everyday, your shoulders hurt from the weight of the knowledge that you are ripping your baby apart. It makes you wonder if you should use a semi-colon, a period or some other means of punctuation. It makes you doubt yourself, your skill as a writer, and your work. Revision and editing is hell to put it simply.

There is a few simple things to help you get through this process with some measure of sanity intact, and perhaps a tiny sliver of your soul.

First thing to do is to READ your book. I know that you wrote it, and you have every single line memorized, but still read it. While you read it, on paper, highlight sections that you are not satisfied with. Also make notes in a notebook for things that you want to change and alter. Simple.

I take things step by step. A chapter a day. Go slow. If you feel rushed your work will reflect that. Take your time and SAVOR the process.

After you have a couple of chapters knocked out make yourself a deadline and mark it on your candler with a big red stinky marker. This deadline is your goal, but give yourself plenty of time. Remember DO NOT RUSH!

Part two entering your changes. Start simple, set a number of pages a day you need to complete. I try to do 30 pages a day. I work only Tuesday-Thursdays. Monday's and Friday's are too crazy for me to be able to get any PRODUCTIVE work done. Set a schedule, stick to it, and make sure it works with your everyday life. The important thing for me is that I have a flexible work place. Yep I said Flexible. That means I can work outside on my deck, at my kitchen table, on my bed, at my desk or even in my car. That is important.

If you tell yourself, "I can only work at my desk, but my kids are up and are playing outside. I guess I can't work." Wrong!! Take it with you! I love watching my boys play and I am more than willing to give them a push on the swing while I work a sentence over in my head.

The most important thing to remember is that life happens!! If you are feeling stressed and overloaded take a few days off. It won't kill you or your manuscript. When you are feeling better make sure that you are back on your work schedule. If you need to go to an event take a break. Your book will be waiting for you when you return like the best friend it is.

The second most important thing to keep in mind is that YOU CAN DO THIS! It's your book, your world that you have created! You can make ANYTHING happen. You need a purple tree in a green sunset go for it! It's yours make it happen! Don't give up and keep your confidence up.

Once you have your revision done print it out and read it again. If you need to go through the process again you can. Rome was not built in a day, and neither will your book. The best things in life don't come easy.

The life of a writer is never easy, and it can be lonely, but it doesn't have to be. Remember to keep in contact with your support (i.e. family and friends, and other writers that you have met). If you need something uplifting read my blog! If you are having a low day, remember it is just one day and it will pass. You can do this it's just words on paper.

Friday, September 4, 2009

Friday, Friday, Friday!

Happy Friday! This week has been crazy! I hope that you all remembered to tell a writer that you support and love them. It's Writer's Appreciation Week!

As everyone knows this weekend is Labor Day, I will be taking a Holiday week off! I will not be posting again until Monday the 14th. Yeah! Well, not really a holiday week, I will be working on my manuscript while sitting on a lovely deck. Remember not to drink and drive and DO NOT dive head first into the shallow end of a pool.

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A small tid bit of weird news this week, Veterinarians at the Arizona-Sonora Desert Museum successfully separated conjoined rattlesnakes, saving the life of one of the diamondbacks, who'd been joined to his twin at the neck.

"We have every reason to believe that it wasn't the surgery that caused one of them to die," Craig Ivanyi, the museum's associate executive director for living collections, told AOL News.
"The one who died was the weaker of the two. He was being dragged around by his twin, and it was harder for him to recuperate."

Ivanyi says the conjoined rattlers were unlike anything he'd seen in his 25 years at the museum. They were found three weeks ago at a construction site north of Tucson and brought to the museum.
"It's unlikely they would have survived if left in the wild," Ivanyi said. "They'd be easily picked off by a predator."
Luckily, Dr. Jim Jarchow, a veterinarian who works with the museum, had experience separating conjoined tortoises.

I can see how special these snakes are with their two heads and all, but still they are VENOMOUS snakes that are a dime a dozen. I think that if I had of found these snakes I would not of called a vet but I would of fetched something to hack off two heads at once. Talking about killing two snakes with one stone.

Thursday, September 3, 2009

NIV


For the first time in 25 years the New International Version of the Bible will be revised to reflect changes in English usage and advances in Biblical scholarship. This was announced on Tuesday September 1, 2009. The revision is set to be completed late next year and published in 2011.

This promises to re-open the debate again about changing the gender of sections of the text. Past attempts to remake the NIV for contemporary audiences in different editions have been plagued by controversies about gender language that have pitted theological conservatives against each other.

The changes did not make all men "people" or remove male references to God, but instead involved dropping gender-specific terms when translators judged that the original text didn't intend it. So in some verses, references to "sons of God" became "children of God," for example.

"We want to reach English speakers across the globe with a Bible that is accurate, accessible and that speaks to its readers in a language they can understand," said Keith Danby, global president and CEO of Biblica, a Colorado Springs, Colo.-based Christian ministry that holds the NIV copyright.

Acknowledging past missteps, the NIV's overseers are promising that this time, the revision process will be more transparent and that they will actively promote what they describe as a long-held practice of inviting input from scholars and readers.
The NIV was first published in 1978 and more than 300 million NIV Bibles are in print worldwide; its publishers and distributors say the translation accounts for 30 percent of Bibles sold in North America.

The Committee on Bible Translation, an independent group of conservative scholars and translators formed in 1965 to create and revise the NIV, will oversee the new revision.

Many prominent pastors and scholars endorsed the changes. But critics said masculine terms in the original should not be tampered with. Some warned that changing singular gender references to plural ones alters what the Bible says about God's relationships with individuals.

The Southern Baptist Convention passed a resolution saying the edition "has gone beyond acceptable translation standards."

"We fell short of the trust that has been placed in us," said Danby, of Biblica. "We failed to make a clear case for the revisions."

Danby said that freezing the NIV in its 1984 state was also a mistake, however. He emphasized that in the revision, about 90 percent of the NIV will be unchanged.
Douglas Moo, a professor at Wheaton College and chairman of the Committee on Bible Translation, said the group is committed to "a complete review of every gender related change." "I am not sure how it's going to come out," Moo said. "We have a genuine, authentic review process ... Everything is on the table."

This has some issues being reopened, given that they never were really closed. Shall we wait and see how PC the bible can get?

Wednesday, September 2, 2009


There is a new book out about Marilyn Monroe, it's "THE SECRET LIFE OF MARILYN MONROE" By J. Randy Taraborrelli. T his book is causing quite a stir. It was released on August 25, 2009 from Grand Central Publishing.

The content of the book is what is making this book such a hot ticket. The National Enquirer has reported that the book states that her cause of death was a drug overdose, not information that she knew about the Kennedy Family. I have yet to read this, the 40th book about Marilyn Monroe, and to be serious I doubt if I will. It's just not my cup of tea, even though her story is tragic and she was beautiful and mis-guided.

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Writer Appreciation Week!


This week is a week full of many things. This week I have fought with my possessed food processor, a half-way functioning electric can opener and I bruised my shin when I banged my car door into it. Even though this week so far has been trying for me, it is a great week for a numerous amount of other people. YES! Tons of people across the country, across the world are having the best week of their year. It's Writer Appreciation Week!

This is a week to celebrate all those people that have been published and those that are still writing and polishing their works of art. Tell a writer that you love them, that you admire them, and most of all BUY a NEW book. Don't go cheap and buy a used book from Amazon.com, even though it is tempting. Show your support and love for the written word and buy a book. You can also show your lovely support and admiration here by leaving me a wonderful comment!

Friday, August 28, 2009

Publishing This Week


This week in publishing news the Simon & Schuster agency is building on its relationship with Moxie & Co. by giving the licensing agency representation rights for a half dozen additional properties. (Moxie has been licensing Nancy Drew and the Hardy Boys for Simon & Schuster since 2005.)

The agency will seek licensees for Chicka Chicka Boom Boom, David A. Carter’s Bugs, Marissa Moss’s Amelia, Matthew Van Fleet’s Cat and Dog, Karma Wilson and Jane Chapman’s Bear and Little Pip, Little Quack, and Pendragon. The first licensee signed for any of the new properties is Manhattan Toy for Chicka Chicka Boom Boom developmental soft toys.

Meanwhile, Moxie & Co. is actively looking for more literary properties, talking to publishers, literary agents and authors and recently signing a deal with Suse MacDonald for Alphabet Animals. “Our goal is to add more iconic, classic books with staying power,” says co-owner Laura Becker.


Nickelodeon has authorized 19 books based on its series Ni Hao, Kai Lan through the end of 2010, including titles from Simon & Schuster (storybooks), Random House (coloring and activity), Publications International (sound books), Readers Digest (supernovelty formats) and LeapFrog (Tag electronic readers).

Target exclusively launched one book, along with a handful of toys, in May; Jade Liana, the actress who voices Kai Lan, will read and sign two of the Ni Hao titles at the Target Book Festival in Minneapolis in September, where Ni Hao will be the focus of the children’s section. Target, Borders and Kohl’s are end-capping the books, and Nickelodeon is talking to Barnes & Noble, Borders and Amazon.com about promotional events. Licensee Mega Brands will promote the books on its Ni Hao, Kai Lan packaging, while some book titles will feature call-outs for Fisher-Price and Vtech toys.

Ni Hao, Kai Lan follows in the footsteps of Nickelodeon’s other leading preschool girl property, Dora the Explorer, which launched with four books. “Dora paved the way for a new generation of preschool tie-in publishing,” Allen says. “It’s been a top publishing property for almost a decade now.”



Cookie Jar Entertainment has signed a number of new licensees for author Richard Scarry’s characters, in conjunction with the debut of a new 52-episode television series, Busytown Mysteries, which will launch this fall. NCircle Entertainment is on board for six DVDs, Cookie Jar has created a Web site called BusytownMysteries.com that includes an immersive world and a fan club, and Simon & Schuster will introduce a new line of books, based on storylines from the TV series, in summer 2010. Current licensed products, for boys age 2-5, include board games from I Can Do That, puzzles from Cardinal and cake decorating supplies from DecoPac. Toys, plush, home furnishings and gifts are planned.

According to Lisa Streff, Cookie Jar’s senior v-p of domestic consumer products, the series has the look of the classic books, and many of Scarry’s most popular characters appear in it. Pointing out that there hasn’t been any merchandise on the market for quite some time, Streff says retail-specific promotions are planned with mass and mid-tier retailers and that the company is in talks with bookstore chains as well.


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ordstrom will exclusively sell children’s apparel in its Midwest and Northeast stores based on the Planet Color by Todd Parr brand. The clothing will be produced by Jen’s Ideas.... Grosset & Dunlap will publish three titles for boys 7-10 tied to Warner Bros.’ Batman: The Brave and the Bold, in spring 2010.


Modern Publishing will release Smurfs coloring and activity books, licensed by Sony. The classic blue characters will make their comeback in an upcoming film.

Majesco Entertainment is introducing interactive games for the Wii and Nintendo DS platforms based on The Daring Book for Girls.


Warner Bros.’ licensing program for Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince includes manufacturers NECA and Corgi International for toys, Mattel for a Scene It game, and Noble for wands, chess sets and sculpts, among others.


With all of this news I am most excited about the Smurfs! What is not to love? How could anyone not simply adore the cute little blue guys? I still have a stuffed Poppa Smurf from when I was little. I cannot wait till the movie is released, and I will try to find some additional inforamtion on that and post it as soon as it becomes available!

Have a great Weekend!

Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Is Harry Potter Christ?


The books are completed, all seven Harry Potter's are done. The movies are close to being completed as well. Now rewind in your minds to back when Harry Potter was first being noticed by kids of all ages and the churches and of course religious scholars. Do you remember the book burnings that were held for the Potter books? Do you remember all the slander of the books by Conservative Christan's saying that the books promoted witchcraft and Satan? I remember schools banning the books from their libraries and parents having fits over the Scar Boy.

Now those same people who condemned the books a "EVIL" and a strike against all that is good in the world are saying that the Harry Potter series are not all that bad. That the books follow the gospels. They see that Dumbledore (even though he is gay in the series) and Harry are versions of Christ because they face a death experience and then they are reborn in a fashion. That makes Malfoy and Snape the Judases. The the wands in the book represent God, the Father, the Sorcerer's Stone represents the the Son because it stands for resurrection and Harry's invisibility cloak stands for the Holy Ghost. I know, I said "WTF?" too when I heard about this.

Quite a few Conservative Christan's and religious scholars have changed their tune since the book series was completed. To me I never saw these books as bad or evil in any fashion. They got kids into reading when otherwise they might have picked up a video game instead.

Of course kids are going to be interested in anything that is considered taboo. I remember when I was in the sixth grade listening to my grandfather telling stories about a neighbor of theirs several years past that had some odd habits that tagged her as a witch in the community (Ok, being able to change form into a goat kinda of does label one as a witch of some sort).I remember being fascinated with the tale, I begged my dad to take me to the house where she lived at down on the creek, I even went to the local library to look up as much information as I could on the witch trails and witches in general. I was hooked. I still am.

I don't see any harm in letting kids know that there is magic out there. Everyday is magical from the beauty of a Morning Glory blooming to a rainbow gracing the sky after a rain shower, to getting all green lights on the way home. The magic may not come from a wand with a strand of unicorn hair as it's core, but it is wondrous all the same.

These Christan Conservatives and religious scholars are just now realizing that the Harry Potter series are not that naughty and that they are indeed a blessing in a way because they got children interested in books and perhaps that these books got kids into reading when otherwise they would not have ever picked up a book willingly. For me these books not not only boosted literacy they boosted the publishing industry. Hey, they had to PURCHASE those books they burned. Of course the Harry Potter series is not so bad.

*this post is based on the NPR (National Public Radio) transcript, the orginal peice aired August 22, 2009. If you would like to read the transcript please go to this website:
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=112141959&ft=1&f=1032